When you look around you see that Zambians like an army of
ambassadors, with fashion from every corner of the world. We see the
Nigerian Boo-boo, the Congolese Chitenge, the Italian pointed shoes, the
Rockers tight jeans, the Rumba baggy trousers, the Cowboy hat, the
Indian Sari, the Che Guevara t-shirts, not to mention tattoos, dreads,
pierced noses, ankle chains, Alaskan boots...
So what is the
Zambian fashion? Some go to traditional ceremonies and say "there it
is!", and we all pretend it is modest and acceptable while people who
are more covered in mini-skirts are condemned! Somehow watching "Shaka"
is a family activity, but not "Baywatch". What do you think, what is Zambian dressing, and
why the double standard?
The bottom line is we seem to have parallel systems of dress and modesty. Newspaper front page pictures of a traditional ceremony with bare chested women is modest, but a picture of women in a night club in the Friday Post is unacceptable. You find teens who are ready to wear swimsuits around their friends, but would flee for cover if their guardians showed up. Why be ready to dress like that with strangers but not around family?
Stemming back to colonial times, parallel systems of dress, education, belief and lifestyle were perfectly acceptable. This has resulted in both good and bad in society.
People effectively marry three times in Zambia even when they marry once; that is, traditionally, by civil law and in church. But any one of the three would be acceptable for it to be considered a real marriage (not one third of a marriage!)
Similarly, people seem to accept having three different types of "morality", freely choosing to live by traditional, Christian or post-modernist thinking. (Post-modernists believe there is no right and wrong, no taboos and moral limits, but 'whatever makes you happy' is acceptable). It is more common for people to switch between the three according to what is "convenient" at any one moment.
There are no easy answers to this situation. In some ways it has made us very tolerant and accommodating people. But at the same time, we need to rethink our worldviews, to actually believe something and stand for something. Otherwise, we are living the life of a shadow, changing shape according to who is around. Sometimes we have to stand for or against something. Our reputation as peace loving is not a bad thing, as long as it does not mean we throw principles out the window in the name of expedience. We need to find answers for these hard questions. There is a saying, "If you do not stand for something, you will fall for anything."
So the question of fashion is part of a wider questions of values and worldview. Then the fashion can reflect that identity. Values are, after all, a question of what we prize and promote, and what we find offensive. But then again, perhaps but unique blend of everything in the global village might be a true reflection of where we are.
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